In our part of the world, it is nearly impossible to buy a dildo, as its banned (yuck!) so I bought one for my wife when I was on my business trip to US few years back and I thought she is going to love it.
It is a realskin (realistic feel) dildo, but to my surprise, she did not like ti much as she feels that it is bit hard (real skin - is hard), and I was taken by surprise not knowing what to do now, as I know she loves the idea of using dildo :)
She still uses is at times - but rarely, so I thought of changing it to what I call now - soft real skin dildo. I know (from porn movies, sex stories and so on) that women like hard dick and dildos, but it doesnt work for all as is :P so I am going to demonstrate how to convert your hard real skin dildo to a soft one that your girl would love to use to pleasure herself.
1) Real skin (soft rubber) dildo
3) Patience :)